Redevelopment Specialty Coaching

The Evangelical Lutheran Church in America is doing many really terrific things to support the reboot of the denomination's coaching ministry. At present it offers free continuing education hours for those who have at least Level 1 training in the ELCA's current model of certification. Hosted by CoachNet Global, these free Zoom calls give participants opportunities to review coaching as a technology and art, and to see its application in specialty modes related to congregational needs. We have had conversations now on Stewardship, Discipleship, and most recently Congregational Redevelopment.

We began the Redevelopment conversation with a recognition that redevelopment work is a very unique and vulnerbale space. Beyond this, not everyone should coach this kind of space. Jonathan Reitz, CEO of CoachNet Global shared that he typically doesn't. As a movement starter himself, the redevelopment space is not one he relishes.

This gave us all a wonderful opportunity to reflect on our own unique contributions to coaching. We SHOULD be in some types of situations, and we should probably learn to stear clear of others. Knowing what to do with whom and when is an artifact of solid self-knowledge and wisdom born of experience.

Specialty coaching takes us into the difficult space of the "resident expert." The trainers amongst us work VERY hard to deconstruct the myth of the expert in ELCA Launch and ongoing training with new coaches. There are at least two reasons for this:

1. Building, equipping, and empowering clients requires us to draw from them their own wisdom and best resources. Good coaching doesn't create dependents. It drives true inter-dependence...which means there is a fully empowered human being (the client) leading the ministries God has entrusted to her.
2. Many (but not all) coaches discover that they are recovering explainers. The need to be the subject matter expert is too great, and perhaps confidence in the power of questions too little early on. So new coaches are known for their long pre-ambles and post-ambles. Jonathan Reitz could tell you all that in my specific case it took well over a year for this particular demon to come out!

But as we progress in our coaching, we learn how to add ourselves back into the conversations in more conscious and intentional ways. Once the unconconscious need to be the experts has been exorcised, and once our confidence no longer requires us to explain our questions, we can engage with larger pieces of who we are, leveraging our own experiences and selves for the sakes of our clients in ways that really do serve THEM and not us.

Related to this, Pastor Scott Suskovic quoted Jonathan Reitz back to all of us with, "...if you don't share your thoughts you are denying the client half of the Spirit's work in that conversation."

Wow.

So we were given a rubric for sharing.
It's ok to offer insights and information. But there are FOUR provisos:

1. It has to be ok with the client.
2. The client gets to tell you if the idea is helpful.
3. The client gets to tell you what it means to them.
4. The client gets to decide what to do with it.

Really helpful stuff, right? If you are an ELCA Coach and haven't gotten onto one of these Zoom calls yet, you are missing out. The content isn't always going to pertinent to where you are in your ministry and coaching, and to what you are doing, but like most things related to continuing education, if you can walk away with one profound new idea, it was probably worth your time. Maybe you should join us?

In gratitue,
Nathan Swenson-Reinhold
ICF ACC
ELCA Coach Trainer
Coach Coordinator, Metropolitan Washington, D.C. Synod